The drama llama strikes again

Luckily yesterday was my “day off” from blogging, because I think if I was forced to blog about this in the mood I was in, I would have smashed my keyboard to little itty bits.

I’ll start off by saying that I’m generally not a very scary person. I pack a little latina heat here and there, but I’m generally happy and fun to be around. I have the patience of a saint. It takes a lot to push me over the edge. So much so, that I’ve only been to that “point of no return” only a few times in my life. The last time it happened, I nearly careened my car into the median on the Long Island Expressway at a very high speed. On purpose. Because the offending person was there with me in the car.

That having been said, I was almost pushed to that point yesterday. Almost. Had the drama and accusations gone on for only minutes more, I would have gone and caused serious physical damage to something or someone.

A lot of my friends went to Katsucon this weekend in Virginia. Several of them are supposed to be involved with the cosplay day I scheduled this coming weekend, and I was waiting for them to get home yesterday evening so that I could hear back from them on whether or not they could make it.

So sometime late yesterday afternoon, I got a message on myspace from this kid Nico (who wasn’t even invited to the cosplay day to begin with) saying exactly this:

“Arwen I have a question are you bringing billy to the bleach cosplay day? If so then me cj and the others are not coming then”

So I instant messaged him (since they were still on the bus on the way back, and the kid was online on his phone), and pretty much asked “what the fuck?” Mind you, last week Nico was bff with Billy, and talking all sorts of shit about CJ in front of me and Christina. Now all of a sudden Nico hates Billy, and is bff again with CJ? What the fuck ever. I’m convinced that Nico is too stupid to come up with his own opinions about things and is just the little lapdog of whoever is giving him a blowjob that week.

Anyway, it came down to Nico and CJ were pissed because Billy suspected them of stealing some of his money and belongings. They vehemently denied having anything to do with two of Billy’s costumes and about $80 going missing out of his wallet, so much so that I’m pretty sure they did it. No one who’s innocent strives to prove their innocence THAT much.

I pretty much told them that if they can’t get over their little petty shit, that I was going to cancel the meetup next weekend. Since I really don’t want to do that, I ended up just telling the two of them not to show up.  And first they said “fine, we’ll stay home,” but then that eventually changed to “no, we’ll show up just to prove to you that Billy will start shit.”

I haven’t known Billy very long, and I’ve known Nico and CJ for an even shorter period of time, but I can guarentee that the drama is not originating from Billy at all. CJ is not only a HUGE liar, but also a drama monger. Since I’ve known him, he’s had problems with Billy, with Jessi, and with a few other people. I’ve now realized that the problem wasn’t with the other people, it was with CJ.

I’m not going to get into the WHOLE story (because the conversation goes on forever), but the last straw was when they started accusing ME of stirring the drama. “You are bringing the drama by cancelling the meetup.” Oh I’m sorry, I didn’t realize that my attempt to thwart the impending drama before it started was “stirring the pot.”

There was also an issue with a wig that Billy had left at Nico’s house, and Billy had kindly requested of me to get it back, since I was the “neutral” party. (Notice the past tense in that statement.) Well, I asked for the wig, and it started with “sure, you can come get the wig,” then it turned into “I don’t want you coming to my house to point fingers and start drama,” and then it ended up with “I’ll paypal you the money” (I didn’t pay for the wig, Christina did) and “I’ll mail you the wig.”

Anyway, I eventually got to my boiling point, said a lot of really, really nasty things, and was eventually so angry that I was shaking. CJ pretty much ruined everything about next weekend. If he shows up, I don’t think I’ll be able to keep myself from pounding the everloving shit out of him. If he doesn’t show up, I can’t guarentee that he won’t try to whisper shit to everyone else involved to get them to not go.

February 16th, 2009 | Drama, Friends | Leave a response